Monday, 9 March 2015

When Friends Become Foes..

Hey beautiful's.
I hope you are all doing great! 
Spring is here and the skies seem a lot more brighter =D

So I decided to do a Blog Post on a topic that is unfortunately extremely common nowadays, and sadly there isn't much that can be done most of the time except to stay optimistic.

We are now living in a society that is run by social media, and technology at our fingertips. It has its many advantages and I love it most of the time, but one of the downsides is how people have become conceited with themselves and have trapped themselves within a little bubble. But technology isn't always the reason behind it.
Time flies by, and nobody has time for the small little things that gives others happiness and don't value relationships.

I've seen friends become foes over the smallest trivial things, and it's sad to see that we live in a time and era where a majority of people have become completely selfish and don't have what it takes to selflessly do anything for others. It's as if everyone's in a race and up in a competition against one another.
Being stable, and securing your place is important BUT what's more important is enjoying that success, and sharing your moments of happiness in life with loved ones around. 

Nowadays, nobody has the patience in any relation any more. Tolerance levels have reduced and nobody wants to work at maintaining those relations.

This post is just a little reminder to tell you work hard, chase your dreams but not in the process of losing those relations. It takes years to build friendships and just moments to break. Sometimes you don't realise what can offend someone any more. 
Just be the best you can be, and wish for others what you wish for yourself.

I personally can be friends with anyone, I can speak to someone and get on with them, but I have very few friends. My circle of friends is very small, and sometimes this works better. When I was younger I always thought the number of friends really mattered and the more friends you had the cooler you were. (Some weird logic!) But as time has passed, I've realised a small amount of friends who are trustworthy and loyal to you are more than enough. Those who wish for you what they wish for themselves is all you could ever ask for. 

I just wanted to share this because I've seen a lot of people fall out over small things, I've seen jealousy, fame, success, greed all get in the way over nothing. 
This life is temporary, and our end is the same - The first step is reach out to those you may have hurt, or who have even hurt you. Apologise! It doesn't make you any smaller of a person. It does not make you weak. It makes you the BIGGER person, and the BETTER person! 

Clear the air..

If things still don't work in your favour, then just let loose. Let it go.
There's a reason Allah has something else in store for you, He will never wish ill upon you.
Take it as a token of a blessing no matter how hard it is. Just wish good for the person, and go out there and know you've given it your all. 
You only need people who wish best for you around you. 
And although I have a limited amount of friends, they are a blessing to me and I value them with all my heart, and they surely know that <3

Keep Smiling!! And remain Beautiful xxx

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